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darryl

laidley, Australia

  Posted: 08 Jun, 2012 08:58:56 Starter

 

The American man may categorize US women as a tease, a ball-breaker, or a gold-digger. Some are sexually aggressive. Others may play hard to get. Too often they complain they are “too tired” or “not in the mood.” Problem is, you never know which you are going to get.

The Asian girl is different. She is much more consistent in her approach to lovemaking. Her culture breeds her to admire, support, love her man, and always be there for him. No matter what her mood or spirits, she is ready to “take care of” her lover. She may gently and demurely initiate sex. But more often she will simply readily and happily acquiesce to her man’s move.

I have had the experience of staying with a girl in my hotel and every time we returned from outside, she would close and latch the room door and automatically take off her clothes as naturally as she breathed. In short, she always wants to please you.

In fact, it is not uncommon for an Asian woman, after making love with you, to suggest you take a nap while she washes your underwear and socks, and squeezes toothpaste from your tube onto your toothbrush and setting it by the sink awaiting your pleasure. Such caring attention is unknown to the western woman. It is an almost mind-blowing experience for the unaccustomed western man.

Of all the Asians, I find the Chinese the oddest in making love. Many do not like to kiss. I’m not sure whether it is inherited as part of their culture, or whether it is based on their insistent demand for cleanliness. But it can be unsettling and frustrating for the man who wants to really make love rather than just having quick sex.

In general, you will experience a whole new world of lovemaking joy and fulfillment when you start dating Asian women.




Frank

Toronto,, Canada

  Posted: 13 Jun, 2012 14:17:40 # 1

  Darryl, was the Chinese lady you were talking about previously married or not? If she was, maybe she was taught that by her previous husband. Or simply she just was inclined to be a good girl. While I am completely in agreement that Chinese women are generally prefeable, there are horror stories of others completely different from the one you encountered.


Mark

Tampa, United States

  Posted: 11 Jul, 2012 01:57:40 # 2

  I have visited China twice and the women I have met were eager for sex, although somewhat inexperienced. I found this to be endearing, sort of like making love with much younger women and much more enjoyable than western women of the same age. And yes, some Chinese women are not the best at tongue kissing, I guess this is just a cultural difference.
One thing that struck me during my travels was the almost total lack of overweight women in the middle kingdom, how refreshing!
Let's hear from some other forum members on this topic.
MR


greg

toronto, Canada

  Posted: 11 Jul, 2012 20:17:33 # 3

  Wrong...Chinese women are best at everything, enough said!


jon

seattle, United States

  Posted: 13 Jul, 2012 21:19:26 # 4

  I haven't met my girl yet face to face, Oct. hopefully. But she sure isn't shy on skype about showing me "the girls" and giving them a squeeze for me!


Dave

columbus, United States

  Posted: 12 Oct, 2012 20:23:59 # 5

  Not all asians admire their man and just like women everywhere not all asian women like sex. I am married to a lovely and educated lady from Beijing. She says sex is too much trouble. I have gone out of my way to make sure she was excited and got pleasure before I did, but after a few years of begging I have given up and started looking for someone else.


Michael

Nashan, China

  Posted: 04 Nov, 2012 05:32:20 # 6

  It's the same around the world, women come in all shapes and sizes. I've been around in Shenzhen for coming up on 4 years. I've encountered all types of personalities. If the woman cares she will go out of her way to please you. Unfortunately the older women for the most part aren't as easygoing or as up to sex as the younger ones. Hence, female menopause kicks in at around middle 40s to early 50s. I've experienced the gracious women as well as the so so women. Recently I've encountered two types of older women, one was introduced by my exgirlfriend 44 yrs old and one I met through and online 48 yrs old. The 48 yr old turned into a crazy stalker type after we got intimate. The 44 yr old turned out to be one of the sweetest woman I ever met in my life. It's funny that the little things matter so much more with a traditional Chinese woman. I like a woman who cares about me for who I am and tries to keep me content. Someone who will mend my shoes or sew my shirt yet never brings it to my attention. Look see what I did for you is what most western woman would state to you expecting praise for doing it. I'm very old school when it comes down to women, I want to be her man and protect her when need be. It's what I was raised to believe in. I don't want to compete with my wife or girlfriend. In Asia it is very black and white and not too many shades of grey in the west. Completely different mindset. As someone put it earlier in the post Chinese women are conditioned from a young age to support and stand by your man. I can never think the same about women anymore after experiencing true dedication from my woman. Most Chinese women are very openminded when your apartment door is latched. I have become a true teacher in the sense that I've opened the eyes to see the real beauty in life to some special women I've encountered while living in China. That being said I have to write a disclaimer, few women in the big cities fit this criteria anymore. They become westernized and sometimes can be more demanding than their western counterparts. The 44 yr old I'm going to let her move in with me and I'll see how it goes. She is a very simple woman that just wants to be with me. Time will tell how it plays out. She's not beautiful or smart yet she makes me feel like a man everyday.

China Shark Mike


kevin

stafford , United Kingdom

  Posted: 05 Nov, 2012 08:03:13 # 7

  well congrats mike and wishing you good luck kev


Steven

Torquay, United Kingdom

  Posted: 16 Nov, 2012 14:03:50 # 8

  If you take bring her to Western culture and you send her out into the big wide world to work. expect the change in attitudes, thus the end of your dreams, and probably the marriage.


Michael

Nashan, China

  Posted: 20 Nov, 2012 06:42:50 # 9

  A little update. The 44 woman went by the wayside after she freaked out a week ago how I didn't get back to her immediately. Truth be told I was coerced into it through my exgirlfriend. She introduced me to her friend while I was bedside in Nanshan hospital 2. So in retrospect I really had no choice in the matter. In my heart I know it didn't feel right. Once you develope any relationship in China high expectations will be required. Many Chinese think that westerners will tolerate this type of behavior. I feel bad yet will not lie or cheat anyone intentionaly. Like one student expressed the other day, "you can't make everyone happy all of the time". So is life, we must progress forward or be stuck in yesterday's feelings. Middle age women just don't do it for me. The younger women can somewhat keep up with me {riding roller coasters and other type of nonsense}, he he :}!!! Once a Chinese woman thinks you love her all bets are off. For some we are merely play toys, others how much you can pay my family. Now in my life I have two focuses, bodybuilding and my carreer. Eventually I'll have a third focus starting up my own small exporting business. I'll date here and there yet will remain in a nuetral state until I'm truely sure about the woman in question. I know I might sound like a jerk yet China is a "Dog Eat Dog" world. "Survival of the Fittest". Gave up drinking, smoking, philandering for good. Carousing with different women believe it or not gets old really quickly. Most Chinese women have issues because of the male figuires in their lives. No wonder they freak out when you say things they don't want to hear. Never ask a question you don't want to hear the answer to.

China Shark Mike


Steven

Torquay, United Kingdom

  Posted: 20 Nov, 2012 16:55:03 # 10

  Re last posting: I think there are quite a few males here who are adding how much this is all costing; EMFs, flights; translations etc, and calculating how to get their money's worth by sending them out to work.

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And now:
There are decent girls on this site. You can see immediately by their profiles. But hey, they are not the ones that are struggling to enhance and display their cleavage, and declare how hot they are. No.

So they are not the ones men are sending cupid notes to. They are the ones that may not appear hot or beautiful on the profile, but give her a chance to show her love, and treat her with respect, and you will be very pleasantly surprised. May take a little longer to woo her, but in the meantime have not been taken for a ride by falling for Miss Vuitton.

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